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How to Stop Addictive Thought Patterns During Nicotine Withdrawal

Thoughts of smoking are common as you go through nicotine withdrawal. It may feel as though your thoughts are trying to convince you to have just one more cigarette. Addictive thought patterns can happen when you least expect them.

It may feel like you're never going to stop missing cigarettes, but don't let these thoughts fool you. You can live nicotine-free. While coping with thoughts about smoking isn't easy, remember it's only temporary.

The tips below will help you build a strong mindset for smoking cessation.​

Cope With Withdrawal Symptoms

Nicotine is such a powerful drug that it changes how your brain works over time. Your body becomes so accustomed to nicotine and its effects that even when you stop smoking, you still feel like you need nicotine to function.

You may feel irritable, sad, and even depressed after you quit smoking. Most people have thoughts that try to convince them to have one more cigarette or to give up on quitting entirely because it's so uncomfortable.

The good news? In general, the longer you go without cigarettes, the more likely it is that your thoughts and cigarette cravings will feel more manageable.

Nicotine withdrawal symptoms are usually the most intense about three days after quitting. After a few weeks to a month, symptoms may lessen. In some cases, people continue to experience nicotine withdrawal for months after quitting, in which case, it's best to consult a doctor or health professional about your symptoms.

When you quit, the goal is to find a way to cope with withdrawal symptoms so that you don't go back to smoking. Smoking cessation medication or nicotine replacement therapy (NRT) may help.

List Your Reasons for Quitting

Try keeping a quit journal or a list of reasons why you quit smoking in the first place. You may also write a reason why you quit on a sticky note and post it on your bathroom mirror or on your refrigerator where you will see it every day.

Any time you have thought about smoking, look at your quit journal or sticky note to remind yourself of your motivation to live smoke-free. This exercise can help take your mind off of what you're losing by quitting, and instead, shift the focus to what you're gaining.

Try the following prompt. At the top of a piece of paper, write, "Now that I've quit smoking...", and underneath, list all the benefits you'll receive (even if you haven't received them yet). The following are some examples of inspiration:

  • My health is improving every day.

  • I'm lowering my risk of cancer and other illnesses.

  • I feel better; I don't feel out of breath when I climb stairs.

  • I don't have to leave the dinner table to go outside and smoke.

  • I set a good example for my family when I don't smoke.

  • I no longer smell like cigarette smoke.

  • I'm saving money by not purchasing cigarettes.

Reframe Your Thoughts

Addictive thought patterns are tricky because they'll try to convince you that you're missing out on smoking. Reframing these thoughts can be a helpful way of realizing you don't need to listen to that little voice telling you to go out and buy another pack.

Addictive Thought

  • I will never get to smoke again.

  • I can have just one more cigarette and quit tomorrow.

  • I'm feeling like I really nerdette to get through this day.

  • I've smoked for years already. I might as well keep smoking.

Your New Thought

  • I get to live a better life without cigarettes.

  • One cigarette can easily lead to another, so I won't smoke any.

  • I'm triggered to smoke because I'm stressed. I need to relax instead.

  • It's never too late to quit and every day I'm smoke-free, my health gets better.

While it can be difficult to erase a thought from your head, you can acknowledge it and put an emphasis on smoking.

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) has been found to be an effective method of helping people cope with unwanted thoughts and urges when they quit smoking. A therapist can work with you to reframe your thoughts.

Know Your Triggers

The thoughts you have about smoking are intensified by smoking triggers. Common triggers include being around people who are smoking, going to places where you used to smoke, and drinking alcohol.

If you always smoked first thing in the morning or the evening after dinner, for example, you can expect to have strong thoughts about cigarettes during those times of the day after you quit.

Emotions can be triggers to smoke as well. Stress, boredom, excitement, and even happiness may increase your urge to smoke.

Changing your routine can be a useful tool when you're going through nicotine withdrawal. For example, if you always smoked a cigarette before bed, try doing something else instead like going for a walk. Replace the ritual of smoking with a new habit.

Keep helpful items on hand like crunchy snacks or sugar-free candies to give you something to occupy your hands and your mouth instead of using cigarettes.

You may also want to steer clear of places or people that remind you of smoking until you've gotten through the early days of withdrawal. Changing your environment can be the difference between giving in to thoughts about smoking and managing the thought in a more amore adaptively

Practice Mindfulness

There are many ways to practice mindfulness, including meditation, yoga, and deep breathing exercises. Mindfulness can be taking just a few minutes out of your day to pay attention to the sensations in your body or to the sounds inside your house or on the street.

Mindfulness may sound like a strange concept if you're not used to practising show that it can help people who've quit smoking cope with the urge to smoke.

Practising means realizing that you are not your thoughts. Just because you have a thought, doesn't mean you need to act on it. When you have thought about smoking, you can simply acknowledge it, let it be, and wait for it to pass.

Engage in Self-Care

Taking care of your basic needs can go a long way in managing difficult thoughts during nicotine withdrawal. You may be more likely to think about cigarettes when you lack energy, so be sure to get enough sleep every night and eat a nutritious diet as well.

Exercise can be a great activity to boost energy levels and manage stress. If you're overwhelmed by addictive thought patterns during nicotine withdrawal, doing something physical can help get you out of your head and into your body. Try dancing to some music or taking a quick walk.

Ask yourself: What makes me feel good? Whether it's listening to music in your room, going for a drive on a sunny day, or seeing a movie with a friend, make a list of the activities that bring you joy, and remember to schedule downtime for yourself.

Join a Support Group

You may find comfort in being able to talk to other people who are quitting smoking, too. By joining a support group, whether in-person or online, you can learn from other people's experiences. You may find inspiration and tips on coping with thoughts about smoking.

Quit smoking apps are full of advice on quitting smoking effectively. Many of them track your progress and some even send daily messages of encouragement.

Even talking to a family member or friend when you're having thoughts about smoking can help you disrupt the thought. Let yourself be distracted by the positive people and things in your life.

Drink Water

Water is critical for the human body to function properly. It makes up two-thirds of our body weight, and every cell and organ depends on it. Without water, a person would die within days.

When we quit smoking, water eases some of the discomforts that often come with nicotine withdrawal:

  • Constipation

  • Coughing

  • Cravings to smoke

  • Hunger/urge to eat

Water also helps flush residual nicotine out of the body, and by keeping yourself well-hydrated, you'll feel better overall. That can only help as you make your way through the discomforts of nicotine withdrawal.

Eat Well

When we quit smoking, our bodies suffer a bit of shock. Most of us have been inhaling not only nicotine multiple times a day for years, but all the rest of the chemicals in cigarettes as well. While it's not a healthy state, our bodies were used to the regimen, and detox can come as a physical, not to mention, emotional shock.

Combat this by making it a point to eat food that gives your body the nutrition it needs. Adding a daily multivitamin during early smoking cessation is a good idea too.

Pamper yourself with a few treats here and there, but don't go overboard. Eating junk food will not erase the cravings that come with nicotine withdrawal, and the guilt might just put you at risk for relapse.

Moderation is key. Think 80/20—80% healthy and 20% treats. This ratio should keep you fueled and satisfied during the discomforts of nicotine withdrawal.

Exercise Regularly

Adding some form of exercise to your daily routine will improve both your physical health and your state of mind, especially as you move through nicotine withdrawal.

Exercise helps you control the mood swings and urges to smoke that are common during this time because it releases endorphins, the "feel good" hormone.

If it's been a while since you've worked up a sweat, check in with your doctor to make sure there aren't any limitations that would hinder a new exercise program for you.

Start slow. If you haven't been active recently, begin with a 10- or 15-minute walk a couple of times a day and work up from there. Be patient with yourself and don't try to do too much too soon.

Think of exercise as a tool, not a chore. It can help you beat back cravings to smoke and counteract the temporary weight gain that often comes with early smoking cessation.

Practice Deep Breathing

Cravings to smoke usually come on fast and with force. They start strong and fade in intensity within three to five minutes. Don't panic when you're hit with an intense urge to smoke. Take a few moments to concentrate on your breathing, and you'll be able to weather the craving successfully.

Deep breathing is a quick way to stop a negative mindset that is threatening to spin out of control. Use the tips in the articles below to help you develop a technique that you can employ at a moment's notice. When cravings to smoke strike, you'll want to act quickly.

Focus on Today

We all spend so much time thinking about everything, but the day we have in front of us. Don't worry about yesterday, tomorrow, or forever. You'll get lost in feelings of never being able to smoke again if you look back with longing or ahead with fear.

Your power to affect change in your life always lies in the here and now, so focus your sights on today and resolve to make the most of it. You can stay smoke-free just for today, don't you? That's all you need to do. Baby steps.

Healing from nicotine addiction is a process of gradual release that happens one day at a time. Be patient with yourself and allow recovery to unfold for you as it will. Enjoy the journey, and be sure to use the precious moments of today to the best of your ability.


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